Six steps to a happy sex life

Six steps to a happy sex life

Feeling shy to make that first move in the bedroom? Well, here are six sex tips to get you all raring to go and sweep your man off his feet.

1. Bag Some Bedroom Magic with Before-Play
No surprise that women blame a lack of romance for a lack of sex! Time to nurture "before-play" between you-if you've had a row, or are stressed after work, let him know you need some cuddles and affection.

Don't expect him to be a mind reader - men aren't good at that. Ask him for a compliment, too. Men respond to straight talking so tell him that feeling appreciated and loved-up gets you in the mood for proper foreplay, reports The Sun.

Having before-play creates the right mood to get turned on. So include things like always having mood music ready to play, and candles to light your supper - even if it's a takeaway!


2. Get Steamy !
Time to turn up the heat. Why not suggest having a candlelit bath or sexy shower together. Subtle candlelight flatters your figure! Take time lathering each other up with some sexy-scented shower gel. Have a couple warm towels ready to dry each other off before you tumble into bed.

When you indulge each other in steamy little pleasures it'll give you loads of ideas for more sensual tricks to tempt each other into bed. You could offer to wash his hair and caress his scalp gently. Show him a light touch and then ask him to return the favour.

Once you're out of the shower dare him to paint your fingernails. As he strokes each of your fingers gently it produces the love hormone oxytocin in your bodies.

3. Get Rude with Food !
It's crucial to make sex as easy-as-can-be when you're a busy/tired couple. So grab opportunities like getting a bit rude with food together. It's super sexy to hand-feed each other little tidbits or to spoon something delicious like chocolate mousse into each other's mouths.

Or why not have a rude-food feast in bed on a Saturday afternoon? Who says you have to eat at the table! This is the perfect setting for drizzling some sweet honey down your cleavage for him to lick off - forget about putting it on toast!

4. Letting Him Know What You Want
Believe me he wants to know what turns you on! If you're feeling a bit shy then show him rather than tell him what to do. Take his hand and guide it gently around your pleasure-zones. Pause where it feels fab saying, "I love it when you touch me here."

5. How To Find Out What He Wants!
He might be a bit shy to tell you what he likes. So ask, ask and ask again! A good way to ask is to give him some options. Say something like, "do you prefer it when I stroke or squeeze you here, and more gently or firmly?" This'll give him the confidence to be honest.

If he needs extra encouragement tell him you find it exciting being told what to do. Turn this into a playful sex-game where he's the boss and you're his sexy PA and he's going to dictate to you what he wants done!

6. Your Private Pleasure Pack
Definitely make your sex-life simpler by keeping a little "pleasure pack" in your bedside table. Then when the mood strikes you'll be ready for some frolics with your fella.

No annoying searching about for things like your favourite lubricant, condoms, sex toys, blind fold for a kinky sex game, sexy stockings and silky knickers, tissues, massage oils, etc. er, Kat herself broke her silence and later revealed that she wanted to buy the remake rights of the 2006 French movie Priceless.
And after months of going back and forth, the deal as of today, stands cancelled.
The people in question simply stopped reverting to the Bollywood actress. "It was ridiculous. Katrina is an A-list actress in Bollywood. They should have dealt with the proceedings very tactfully," revealed a source close to Kat.
Tired of the unprofessional behaviour, Katrina too, has eventually given up on her French dream. "She gave lot of time and energy to this project.
She had even thought of a few directors who could handle the subject beautifully. She has every reason to be exasperated now. She has given up on Priceless, " added our source.
However, this setback has not managed to squash Katrina's dream of turning producer. "She is very much open to other films. She is quite a film buff and sees a lot of foreign films. Who knows, she might even pick up a Hindi film and remake it," informed the source.

ANA SOFIA HENAO

Prince William & Kate's Royal Wedding Kiss (PHOTOS)

Prince William and his wife Catherine shared a kiss on the balcony at Buckingham Palace.

The first one was too quick for the crowd's liking, so they went in for another.

U.K. Women Don't Envy Kate Middleton, AOL Survey Finds

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Doesn't every girl dream of being a princess? Apparently not, at least not lasses in the United Kingdom. Almost 9 out of 10 U.K. women (86%), who were polled by MyDaily.co.uk and YouGov, say they don't envyPrince William's future wife, Kate Middleton. Across the pond, we're head over heels with the royal lovebirds though. According to a AOL survey conducted in the U.S., 50% of American women say they're excited about the upcoming ceremony.

"We might speak the same language, but clearly Brits and Americans have very different opinions when it comes to the wedding of the decade," Carla Bevan, Editor in Chief of MyDaily.co.uk said. "Women in Britain might want a wardrobe fit for a princess, but certainly don't fancy the lifestyle that comes with it. Mind you, love or loathe the hype that's going alongside the royal nuptials, we've certainly all got an opinion on the big day, whichever side of the Atlantic we live."

Of the 1 in 10 women who did admit to feeling a little envious of Kate, her wealth was seen as the most desirable (27%) -- even more sought after than the fact she has a prince-in-waiting (20%). Plus, the U.K. survey finds that only 43% of British folks feel she's worthy of becoming their future Queen.

But, perhaps most importantly, she wins fashion points for her style. Nearly twice as many women would choose to buy outfits worn by Kate Middleton (23%) than that other sartorial icon of the same name, Kate Moss (12%).

And when it comes to the look of her wedding dress, there's a definite generation gap in the U.S. Older boomers (ages 55+) favor a lace sheath because it's a classic, romantic fabric (40%); Gen Xers (ages 32-44) would like to see the bride wear an A-line gown covered in crystals and rhinestones (36%); and Millennials (ages 18-31) are split between a princess ball gown (33%) and a lace sheath (30%).

As for keeping up with the royal wedding details, almost half (44%) of American women are following the coverage. While boomers (age 45+) prefer TV reports to the web (58% vs. 24%), the reverse is true for millennials (ages 18-31), who get their William and Kate news online (49% vs. 29%).

Zeenat loves Yana Gupta's 'Laila O laila'

Zeenat Aman might not be happy with the new version of her cult song "Dum maaro dum", but the veteran actress is quite satisfied with the neo-age version of "Laila o laila" and is going all out to lend her support to it. The famous song from the 1980 film "Qurbani" has been re-arranged for the film "Chalo Dilli", which is actress Lara Dutta's first home production. "I liked the song when I heard it. They have retained the original version and at the same time have given the song a new flavour. It's got a rustic, ethnic feel and I liked it a lot. So I'm supporting it, " Zeenat told. The new version has been picturised on Yana Gupta and the 31-year-old is extremely happy to be a part of such a cult song. Yana said, "I was extremely excited to do this song because it's fantastic. I'm just honoured to do Zeenatji's song. I think people will like it. Yana said she was very happy that Zeenat gave her support for the song. "It's a big deal for me, " she said. "I saw the video of the original song a couple of times and saw the style that Zeenat ji used in the song. But I didn't copy her as I thought of doing it my own way because the song is very different, " she added. Vidya present to support Sabyasachi It was a splendid tribute to contemporary and classic fashion at the Wills Lifestyle India Fashion Week (WIFW) grand finale Sunday as the ramp came alive with designer Sabyasachi Mukherjee's vibrant colourful collection. Also present was his favourite muse Vidya Balan. The ramp was transformed into a vintage set reminiscent of an old British library. Set against a backdrop of life-sized iconic fashion bibles, the all black wooden ramp was bedecked with flamboyant colourful bulbs. The finale opened with a stellar performance by famous performer Kiya from London and Vidya walking with the designer. Mukherjee's collection was inspired by paintings of three of his favourite artists - Henri Matisse, Pablo Picasso and Paul Gauguin. "The collection was inspired from the 1960s and 1970s style in the international market. The silhouettes were sports meets retro-rock on a colour palate which varies from black and white with a mix of super bright colours as well. But the entire range used Indian handicrafts fabrics like textured khadi, a little bit of zardozi, beaten and burnt crystals and lace, " said Mukherjee after the show. The collection was high on functionality with models sporting the retro-meets- contemporary look. The garments which grabbed eyeballs were modern versions of the flared 1950's skirts with sporty elastic that made them fuss free and floor-touching dresses. Vidya, dressed up in traditional yellow sari, was seen cheering for the designer.

What? Mallika hires paparazzi to take her pictures!!!

Mallika Sherawat hires paparazzi to take her pictures in Hollywood Lady Gaga may be the biggest Fame Monster around, but Mallika Sherawat plans on getting there soon enough. Hell, she's even found a shortcut. Sources reveal that after returning to Hollywood, the Hisss star hired local paparazzi friends to follow and tape her every move. Who's tracked A source close to her reveals, "The Western media, especially Hollywood, feeds off the paparazzi culture. If you are photographed stepping out of a club or walking on the streets by one pap, news will spread and they will be drawn, moths to flame. In no time at all, you're famous! Only celebs whose pics fetch money, are tracked." Madame M took cue. "Recently Mallika was spotted talking to a cameraman following and taping her as she walked. It was later revealed that he was her friend who simply posed as a paparazzi guy, " says the source. Playing to galley The video has been posted on the popular celebrity portal http://www.hollywood.tv/ and shows Mallika talking in an American accent. Her friend asks her about "reports of working with the likes of Tom Cruise and Johnny Depp" which she laughs off with her trademark giggle. Fully aware that such videos go viral minutes after hitting the web, Mallika poses, pouts and answers all the questions excitedly. In fact, she even shows off her newly-purchased shades and asks for opinion! Buzz is that this is an attempt to get publicity for her film Love, Barack. Cannes Yatra Mallika plans to take one of her Twitter followers on a date to the Cannes Film Festival this year. She took to her micro-blogging site telling her fans they, too, can join her on the red carpet. Perez Hilton Mallika will appear on prolific US blogger Perez Hilton's website talking about fitness, Bollywood and her future plans. Perez, who's notorious for his nasty comments on celebrities, met the actress and conducted an interview. Preeti Desai Topless: Fake or Real? That's what newbie actress and beauty pageant winner Preeti Desai calls the topless pics of her, doing the online rounds It's a malaise most actresses have to put up with. Everyone from Katrina Kaif to Mallika Sherawat has claimed to be a victim of doctored pictures that see them in several states of undress. Newbie Preeti Desai (who made news for being Abhay Deol's girlfriend) and who makes her debut in Shor In The City, is distraught to learn that topless pictures of her were circulating online today. The newbie has been claiming that the pictures are morphed and that she never posed for these pictures "There is a lot of rubbish on the internet. I don't think people are gullible to believe everything they read or see! I'm not going to waste time commenting on silly things like this!" she says. Preeti would rather talk about her role in SITC. "I play Shalmili opposite Sendhil Ramamurthy's character Abhay (Sendhil), who is going through a bad phase after moving back to the city. She shows him the city through her eyes and the city comes alive for him." Preeti who? Preeti Desai is a model and actress and was Miss Great Britain 2006. She made history by becoming the first woman of colour to ever win the title.  Why Ranbir is taking so much interest in the exotic Nargis? Ranbir Kapoor's interest in the exotic beauty Nargis Fakhri is more professional than personal.  The US-born half-Pakistani half-Czech debutante's Hindi needs a lot of work, to put it mildly, and Kapoor has taken up the cause to perfect her language skills. Along with director Imtiaz Ali, Kapoor has been relentlessly working on Fakhri's diction. In fact, sources say the entire Rockstar team is determined to turn Fakhri desi before the final print of Rockstar is ready for release in September. All members of the crew have been advised to converse in Hindi with Fakhri; no one talks to her in English anymore. Ali and Kapoor had put aside the leading lady's linguistic problem at the start of the shoot. Ali was reportedly dazzled by her screen presence, and decided to sort out the tiny issue of language later. Now, with Rockstar nearly complete, the director and the lead actor have joined forces to make Fakhri's Hindi sound credible. The two have two options -- either her lines can be dubbed by a professional dubbing artist, like Katrina Kaif's lines were in her first few films, or Fakhri improves her Hindi enough to sound convincing as a desi girl in time for the final print. "Nargis' screen presence and her acting abilities are topnotch. Everyone from the unit is raving about her. But the matter of her lines still need to be sorted out, " said a source. Ali and Kapoor have reportedly taken the tougher route and are working on Fakhri's Hindi round the clock. The 5'9" tall Fakhri was featured in the 2009 Kingfisher calendar. She has also done television commercials for Herbal Essence, Pantene, and Ponds in the US.

Adriana Lima Models $2 Million Dollar Bra, Victoria Secret Denies BroBible at the Door

This morning when I turned on the TV I saw the Ariana Lima, the genetically-perfect Victoria Secret Angel, being interviewed while sporting a $2 million bra.  Then I noticed that she happened to be in the same Victoria Secret flagship store in Soho that's just a hop, skip, and jump from the BroBible office.  I immediately got on the train and made a bee-line for the store.  When I got there you could barely see the Brazilian model thanks to throngs of paparazzi. Determined to snap some photos, I wiggled my way through and I managed to get a few shots of the publicity stunt.

Unfortunately, I wasn’t on the list and they wouldn’t let me into the store to continue collecting photos.  If they only knew how much BroBible loves Adriana Lima and all of Victoria Secret’s models they may have been more inclined to let us in (for further proof, see here, here, here, here,here, and here). Check out Adriana Lima sporting a bra after the jump.